Thursday, March 06, 2008

Those two little lines

It only takes two little lines to change your whole world. The first appears automatically, and as you wait those very long three minutes, you realize if the other line does appear, things are going to be different from here on out. Not only are you going to have an amazing, loving 2 year old running around your house, but you are going to be welcoming an infant into your family of three. This will change the dynamic of your family forever, but in a good way. As you are in the midst of your thoughts, you realize that three minutes have come and gone. You grab the test and look it over, realizing that yes, in fact, there are two lines. Your heart skips a beat, a smile washes over your face and you thank the Lord for this blessing.

Yes, you might have guessed it by now .. I am pregnant with our second child!!

I am now almost 10 weeks along, meaning that our baby is due October 3rd. We've been to the first pre-natal appointment where during the ultrasound Brooklyn was waving, blowing kisses and calling to her "brudder or siser" to come out and play. We plan to take her with us to every appointment because we want to share this journey with her. And, while she might not understand exactly what is going on, there's nothing to be ashamed about, or no reason why she can't be there. She's as much apart of our family as this baby will be, and if you know us, we love to do things together, as a family.

She is understanding and mimicking Mommy's every move though. Much like when I was pregnant with Brooklyn, I am once again very, very nauseous and have found I can't keep as much food down as I would like. If I cough, she looks at me with concerned eyes and says "you need to 'frow up' Mommy." Several times she has came to my aid when I get that sick, rubbing my back, flushing the toilet and offering to hold me. It's all very precious. And, then, there's those times, when we're playing and she runs to the sink on her play kitchen and says "oh I need to frow up."

Kevin has been very supportive and extremely helpful, especially with chores around the house. He insists on helping with laundry on weekends, so I won't have any to do during my days off. He also has taken an interest in cooking dinner from time to time, which I must admit is a huge help as I can get pretty sick at night too.

It's just such an amazing journey that we have embarked on once again. We are all so thrilled as our families. And, we cannot wait to meet this little one later this year!!

7 comments:

  1. Oh Melisa, Congratulations!!!! I am so happy for yall! Brooklyn sounds so much like my Kylie was when I was pregnant with my second, so sweet and caring. We also took Kylie to all the doctors appointments when I was pregnant with Alaina and then when I was pregnant with Jason, they both went with us.....Our doctor loved it that we were there as a family...and they loved getting to see their new sibling in mommys belly, it made it more real to them.

    This new baby is extremely blessed already, with a great big sister and wonderful parents. Take care and God Bless!

    Love and Prayers
    Crystal

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  2. Oh a million & one congratulations, girl!!! And hugs too! But not too tight. Wouldn't wanna make you boot. ;)
    Sophia has been pulling this, "Oh I'm just so beatdown! I'm 'ezausted' & HAFTA lay down!!" Mama mimick much? Oops!

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  3. When were you going to tell me? I thought you just hated laundry. LOL! I love you, you're beautiful, and will be a great mommy x 2.

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  4. I am so, so happy for you! You know how I've been rooting for you to add a second for some time now. =) And I especially love how you broke the news to me. =) So excited!

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  5. Anonymous5:46 PM

    Congratulations to the three of you and your families. You've done such a wonderful job with Brooklyn, and now you get to repeat it with the newbie. How wonderful.

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  6. CONGRATULATIONS!! I've left a few comments here in the past but just got your comment on my blog!! Thanks for visiting!

    That is awesome about the new baby - having two is great!! Brooklyn (love the name by the way - hehe) is precious and will make a great big sister!!!

    Beth

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  7. So, So, So happy for you, Malisa!!!! WOW!!! Our babies will only be about a month apart!! I know how you are feeling about the sickness, ugh. :o( I am STILL nauseous but not throwing up, praise God! I will be praying for you because I know that part is rough.

    You will LOVE having two, it's the best! I am about to find out what having th
    ree is like, can't wait!

    Congratulations and I hope ya'll have a very happy Easter, too!

    Love, Julie

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